Is It Better to Telling the Truth?

I am 100% believe it is better to telling the truth in every relationship than keep lying, even though it sounds naive and some people find it is hard to do. Relationship in this context is not only applied between us and someone we know, but also as human to human. This is because we never know what people feel and think, also whether our lie will turn good or bad to that people. We all are only common people, who do not have ability to do such.

For example, some parents maybe ever told a lie to their child, but they never know if their child really did not know the truth. It is possible the child has already know all of these time but pretend does not know anything. Even though that lie is for their child’s sake, but they never could control what their child thinks later. Therefore the parents could not blame anyone else but themselves when their child lost the trust to his parents.

Someone said if we once tell a lie, we would tell a bigger lie to cover previous lie. It will create an open loop lying and burden our own heart. Besides, once the people know about our lying, their trust has already broken. So, what I am trying to say here is there is no good will come out from lying, whether to other people or ourselves. Moreover, if we tell the truth, maybe it is hard, but it is surely harder to them if they found about the truth later in a way we never expected and even gives worse impact. Though even if the truth is really hurtful, we can always find another way how to speak the truth. It is always better than keeping the lie within our heart and hurt ourselves later on.

Best Friends from My Perspective

In my opinion, best friends are the people who accept you no matter how freak you are, give you support when you look down, and be happy if you happy. Some people only have one best friend in their life because they said less people you trust is better, though I am blessed with four lovely best friends around me. I met them six years ago when I was in college in a way which I do not remember, but we lived together in campus dormitory for around one year. At that time I was not sure we would make this strong bond only through watching film together in someone room, hang out and shopping together, even our major was different with each other so we only met at the campus dorm. Nevertheless, we still stick together until this very moment and still counting.

Of course our relationship is not always very bright and smooth. Sometimes we had frustrated by someone stubbornness or the other time someone felt offended by the other one’s not intentionally harsh tongue. But still we forgive and forget in the next day, even after time to time we consider that is her natural behavior so we should compromise with it.

As in my opinion, they are the type of girls who would not complain much if you did not dress properly, but could get furious if they found you have something important which they did not know. They are also not the type who would give you super cute attention like the other girls, but they would always be there when you need them. I never had a really close friend before, because I had to move town to town when I was in school and it was painful. Therefore, I really grateful for the God who draw the line for us and I hope you would not get bored with me.